When you hire me to represent you you are going to get a zealous advocate that will look out for your best legal interests. I will advise you of the law, your options regarding how to proceed, and my option as to your chances of success. I will not be your therapist, I am not big into hugs, I will tell you what you need to hear, even when it will be hard to hear. I may tell you that your are being foolish or stupid or stubborn or niave etc. in a becuase often I am there to protect you from yourself. You hire me for my knowledge, objectivity and expertise, if you are not going to follow my advise save your money and don’t hire me. I care greatly about my clients but I will not become emotionally involved in your case, if I do I lose my objectivity. But rest assured I will fight like hell for you.